I GOT A GIRL CRUSH

FRIENDSHIP DEVELOPS LOVE
 
     love causes an enormous amount of happiness in the world and an enormous amount of pain.in these ideal world,human beings take the time needed to create a loving relationship with each other.the foundation of this relationship would be friendship.
   FRIENDSHIP DEVELOPS BETWEEN THE INDIVIDUALS WHO VIEW EACH OTHER AS EQUALS
    ACCEPTANCE:friends accept each other
    RESPECT:friends hold each other in high regard,believing that each has good judgement and considerable ability in life
    TRUST:friends can depend on each other to act in the best persons interest
   ENJOYMENT:friends like to be with each other.though them have occasional disagreements,they tend to get along very well,most of the time
    MUTUAL ASSISTANCE:friends can help each other when called upon and are there for each other in difficult times
   CONFIDING IN EACH OTHER:friends talk to each other about their experiences in life and are comfortable expressing their feelings
    UNDERSTANDING:friends know a great deal about each other values beliefs,feelings and behaviour etc.they are open with each other and this happens to understanding
   SPONTANEITY:friends can be real with each other
   CARING:the loss of loved one,can be devasting experience.illness and even suicide can follow the loss.love is more than friendship,both kinds of human relationships are very important in peoples lives
   PASSION:the individual in love is preoccupied with the loved one,cannot stop thinking about the person,wants to be with the person all the time

                LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT
  Human behaviour,by its very nature,it is rooted in biology and our bodies have enormous control over thinking and our behaviour .falling in love is easy but staying in love  is much more difficult.our our bodies  make falling in a love relatively simple prospect,but the area of our brain that controls.rational,clear,logical thinking has to be involved through the months and years,if we are going to be able to make this love grow into something deeper and more lasting

        BOYS CRUSH TOWARDS A GIRL

                       I have  got a girl crush.hate to admit it but,
                       i got it real bad,want everything,
                       she has that smile and that mid night laugh.

                   i want to taste her lips,i want to drown myself,
                  i want to drown my self in a bottle of her perfume,
                  i want her magic touch,because i have got a girl crush,

                           i dont get sleep,i dont get no peace
                 i'm always thinking about her,under the bed sheets,
                 the way how she is whispering,the way how she pulling me,
               lord knows i have tired,i cant get her off from my mind
   
                     FEELINGS AND EXPERIENCE LOVE
     being unable to express my situation to my friends and family members and to that special girl.
 sometimes one really feels like taking a break and leaving the self aside for a while,just to rest from worries,fears of the future,parents prestige like class caste,that kind of decisions need to me made.
 
        every individual is different,has a different personality,attitude,values,experiences and way of dealing with people.these kind of person my attracts the person towards the other people.

         
                              LUST AND LOVE
   in love even an objects is elevated to life. the whole entire creation become alive and divine.in lust even a living being becomes a mere object.lust grips the mind,lust is nothing.be playful,people who are in the grip of lust cannot be genuinely playful.when you are in playful then there is no lust.
 loyal to each other.loyalty is the way in which a mature and integrated mind behaves.loyalty signifies an un divided wholeness  of consciousness and shows richness of love from mind and heart.the mind is not integrated it is feverish,disloyal and oppurtunistic.
     
             responsibility of a person towards care,dedication and commitments are the senses of love.in the path of love,the knowledge make sensitive and strong.the love that comes out of familiarity grows.a person more comfortable to speak who is familiar person when comparing to new or other person.this love has nothing to thrill,no angry in it.

          when a person feels time is too short,a person either restlessness or in a state of expanding awareness.when a person feels time is too long person feels a keen mind.when a person happy in love that person do not
feel the time.balance with loved ones...
        POSITIVES :affection and love brings the attention towards the loved ones,
                              expression of love is service....
                              expression of joy is smile...
                    smile is a curve that sets the whole world straight.....

      NEGATIVES:attitude effects behaviour,behaviour affects relationships....!
 
lust brings tension:love brings relaxation,
lust brings brings violence:love brings sacrifice,
lust demands: love commands,
lust causes feverishness and frustration:love causes longing and pain.......!
 
                         CONFUSION
       decision comes only when there is confusion.when there is no confusion,there is no need of decision.a decision is always about choice and choice is always confusing.the more decisions what a person take towards other person whom to love like sita,gita sheela priya priyanka etc
 
       when a person more confused there is no freedom and also experiences pain and pleasure.
a person more the witness grows with in him,he experiences more playful and joyful.trust, faith,joy and love all manifest in and around the person...!

             BREAKUP
       Often people are soft from lack of courage and force fulness.they might be suffer a lot,and at some time or other they become volatile.there are few people who possess a softness that comes from maturity and the knowledge of self. the idea of truthfullness,agressive people are convinced of the rightness of their position.to be truthful,need not be agressive.
   
              when you meet your partner,you must and often communicate from heart to heart.if your ego obstructs from talking.the heart level breaks the ego.the soul level dissolves the ego.inability to communicate always occurs because of ego...! rudeness,if you can digest rudeness,whatsoever nothing can shake you.
        create a sense of belongingness in them by your kind of actions,if nothing works just go home eat and sleep....!

           WHY ARE YOU HERE....?
You are not here to cry
 you are not here to blame,   
 you are not here to sleep,
 you are not here to fight,
 you are not here to dominate,
 you are not here to cheat,
 you are not here to be angry,
 you are not here to worry......!
     
          when you follow knowledge,fun follows you,
 when you follow fun,misery follows you.....

 celebrate pleasure and pain,celebrate when you are with people(or)alone,celebrate the silence and noise,celebrate life and death....!
 knowledge of life brings confidence and knowledge of death makes you fearless and centerd.....!(OSHO)
           
                Thank you so much my dear friends for reading and patience, i hope you people can enjoy this time please comment back,its based on research and my own feelings and expressions ... negative feed back highly appreciated.....!